ComplicateD

After a Long time i came back to my conclusion of the day..

Before being in a Relationship i Always think it is too complicated to handle it. 

      Does it affect only in your intimate relationships?

 No the complexity depends on what we expect and what we understands in each and every part of relations. whatever with it your friends or with family or with your spouse.

After being in a Relationship i understand all is need is just a time to understands each other. sometimes we get to complex when someone reacts in a different way than we expected. 

Expressing your self is best needed in Relations

 Care To Cure...

Give a Chance to Yourself to understand Your Own 

 

                                       There is an interesting point that we are very often unaware of that causes us to incite conflicts. We get very excited by others people’s reactions. The more we can get someone to react, the more we enjoy it. This is an enhancement to human pleasure.

Why

Why didn't I listen to what they said?

When I thought about it, I was filled with dread

They told me to be careful in all I do

I didn't believe it, this couldn't be true.

He said he loved me, and didn't want to hurt me.

It was all a lie, now I see

If I listened to my friends from the start

He might not have left with most of my heart.

I thought it was diffrent, the love to last

How did this happen? Why did it end so fast?

I won't be the last, and I wasen't the first

How did this happen? Why am I cursed?

They said it's his loss, but I still don't see

Why? Why did he do this to me?

I'll do my best, and try to move on.

Even though it feels like my heart is gone

Now I know to listen to my friends

For they will be with me in the end.

Just Dont Know

At times I just don't know what to think.
Just don't know what to do with myself.
I feel as if everything that I have done with myself is wrong.
Always playing the same record, listening to the same song.
I just don't know anymore because it seems that everything that I do makes people upset.
I'm never really happy an what does make me happy, I just don't know.
I'm unsure of myself in everything that I do.
I've always lacked in confidence with everything.
I don't know where to turn, I don't know where to go.
I'm just confused, I just get yelled at day in a day out.
Do I want to release my anger, I just don't know if it'd be a good thing.
I've always kept things on the inside, which I never know what to do.
I just never really do know what I want in life, I just never really know.
Why is it that I'm just confused all the time, not bein able to answer the simplest of questions.
I just am unsure of everything, I'm just unsure of it all...
I don't know where to go I don't know who I am.
I just don't know anymore.

Silence

The tongue is our most powerful weapon of manipulation. A
frantic stream of words flows from us because we are in a constant
process of adjusting our public image. We fear so deeply
what we think other people see in us that we talk in order to
straighten out their understanding. If I have done some wrong
thing (or even some right thing that I think you may misunderstand)
and discover that you know about it, I will be tempted
to help you understand my action.
Silence is one of the deepest disciplines of the Spirit, because it
puts the stopper on all self-justification. One of the fruits of
silence is the freedom to let God be our justifier. We don’t need
to straighten others out.

The tongue is our most powerful weapon of manipulation. A frantic stream of words flows from us because we are in a constant process of adjusting our public image. We fear so deeply what we think other people see in us that we talk in order to straighten out their understanding. If I have done some wrong thing (or even some right thing that I think you may misunderstand) and discover that you know about it, I will be tempted to help you understand my action. Silence is one of the deepest disciplines of the Spirit, because it puts the stopper on all self-justification. One of the fruits of silence is the freedom to let God be our justifier. We don’t need to straighten others out.

Realism

Have the patience and courage to begin anew each day, and

trust in God’s help; his mercy is new every morning. Then you will

understand that life is a matter of becoming or growing, and

that you must look forward to greater things. Even though you

stand in battle with dark powers, victory will be yours, since in

Christ every evil is overcome. You will always remain at the

beginning of your search, because you will continually change,

yet in faith you will find the fulfillment of all your longing.

Eberhard Arnold

Whome to Blame

Boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage.

 

They were a Loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes.

 

When the boy was Around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle Open.
 
 
He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep It in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot The matter.
 
 
The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by Its colour and drank it all.

 

It happened to be a poisonous medicine Meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother Hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She Was terrified how to face her husband.
 
 
When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child ,

 

He looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

 

 
QUESTIONS:
 

 

1. What were the five words?

 

2. What is the implication of this story?
 
 

 

 

 

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ANSWER :

 

 

 

The husband just said "I am with you Darling"
 

 

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive Behaviour.

 

The Child is dead. He can never be brought back to life.

 

There is no point In finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to Keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.
 
 
No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she Needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.
 

 

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would Be much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles Begins with a single step." Take off all your envies, jealousies, Unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are Actually not as difficult as you think.
 

 

MORAL OF THE STORY
 
 
Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, Whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this Way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.